In times of change, many unnecessary things happen. Unnecessary means: I did not want them to happen, yet they still do. At some point, my saying yes to what is unnecessary must end. An ending is the final part of what opens the way for the new to come. Saying yes to the new is justice in its deepest sense — justice towards life, justice towards myself, and justice towards the future yet to unfold. To be rightful in its place is to serve the time that is yet to come.
This new time carries many attributes by which we can recognize it. The first and most crucial is that we are turned towards it. This movement of turning may last sometims for months, sometimes for years. In this turning, time slows down. We feel as if we are not moving much in life, yet this invisible movement is serving our life in its highest form.
The movement of turning is often undervalued, even humiliated and despised. Human intelligence cannot grasp its meaning. In this process, within ourselves, we sometimes create parts born of despair, grudge, resentment, denial, guilt, and even hatred. Not because we truly wish to become such a person, nor because we want to relate to others from that place, but simply because our awareness and intelligence cannot perceive the movement of turning, cannot grasp its meaning and its service to life in its fullness.
This is why, in the field of systemic constellations, it is sometimes crucial for representatives making the movement of turning to do so at the slowest pace possible — small step by small step, moving only when gathered in strength, fully present, with eyes open.
The movement of turning is a crucial movement, one that must be carried out carefully, so as not to create within ourselves parts that are unnecessary.
But how is this done in real life? By sitting down with ourselves, removing unnecessary events — excessive mobile use, watching TV, listening to noise — and gathering energy for the next step. In this energy point, all people and events that cause within my body the sensation of “hurting my back” if I say yes, or feelings of discomfort, agitation, worry, guilt, or hatred, require me to say no to them or to simply ignore them.
The movement of turning requires only myself and my inner strength, while pointing me toward the new future. These inner movements are not separate from outer movements, for the time when the inside was one thing and the outside another is over. By completing our movement of turning, we feel fully accomplished, and this point of accomplishment makes us different people — new humans who have brought justice to ourselves and to our own life. Every life needs this turn, and none of us are excluded.
So, now we came to the conclusion what are the attributes to our new future that is yet to unfold. It is the future of power and strength, inligned my inner and outer worlds. It is the justice I brought to myself, it is my rightful life full of gifths rightfully signed for me to own it. It is my future fully inlined with God.
Ivana Oreški, august 2025.